Putting Passion Into Compassion
The word “compassion” sometimes conjures cozy images: the child feeling compassion for the abandoned puppy, the boss having compassion on his employees by letting them go home early, and other niceties that people generally applaud as “compassionate.” Robust, biblical compassion, however, has more to do with suffering than being nice. Indeed, compassion literally means “to suffer with,” and as we explore the compassionate action of God in Scripture, we are confronted with an image that’s more incredible than cozy.
Our world desperately needs compassion, because our world is full of suffering. All of us have seen the starving child on TV—emaciated, surrounded by flies—and some of us have seen this suffering firsthand. We know that our world is riddled with suffering, but what can we do? How can we respond compassionately to those who are suffering, whether starving children in hopeless slums or the less obvious suffering of our neighbors? To explore these issues, we must pay careful attention to the compassionate action of the Triune God as revealed in Scripture.
Our Compassionate God
Compassion is a word armed with action, oriented toward relationship, and packed with passion. In the story of Scripture, God’s compassion begins with hearing and seeing the sin and suffering of His creation. God gave Israel His beautiful blueprint for their lives—the law—and Israel responds by worshiping a golden god. But God, who is compassionate and gracious, “slow to anger, abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness,” crafted a covenant to work wonders out of this rebellious people (Exodus 34:6-11). Compassion on this level turns things upside down and stops us cold.
As Israel rehearses her history in Nehemiah 9, the turning point is always God’s compassion. While the people continually fall into the pattern of sinning and calling out to God for help, God continually responds with grace and compassion. “And when they cried out to you again, you heard from heaven, and in your compassion you delivered them time after time” (Nehemiah 9:28b).
The psalmist often speaks of the Lord’s compassion, remembering and praising it together with the Lord’s staggering redemptive acts: forgiving sins, healing diseases, and ransoming pitiful lives (Psalm 103:3-4). In His compassion, God sees affliction, feels the pain of the afflicted, and enters into the midst of affliction to transform it into joyful life. For as the prophet Isaiah proclaimed: “the Lord has compassion on his afflicted ones” (Isaiah 49:13b).
God’s compassionate action throughout history sets the stage for Jesus, who allowed Himself to be moved by what He saw: “When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them … ” (Matthew 14:14a). But Jesus’ compassion was expressed in action: “When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them and healed their sick” (Matthew 14:14, emphasis added). Jesus’ compassion catalyzed His mission not only to heal, but to preach good news to the poor, and associate with the outcasts and downcast. He saw, felt, and acted compassionately, and He appointed His disciples to do the same. “When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. Then he said to his disciples, ‘The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few’ (Matthew 9:36-37). Jesus commanded His first disciples to join Him in acting on behalf of those in need of deliverance, forgiveness, healing, and redemption. The same command applies to His followers today.
When we join Jesus in His mission, however, the first thing we realize is that our compassion is not enough. Every human effort is tainted by sin, and therefore must point to the world’s only act of pure grace: the crucifixion and suffering of Jesus on the cross. Jesus’ vision of the downtrodden, the sick, the enslaved, and sinful led Him to the point of death. Throughout the history of redemption, God has showed compassion through acts of mercy and justice, but in the death of Jesus—followed by His victorious resurrection and ascension into heaven—God’s compassion reached its culmination. For all those desiring compassion, they must look to the suffering Savior. For those desiring to show compassion, they must not only look to Jesus in faith, but expect to follow His way of suffering.
If compassion is deliverance for the downtrodden and suffering together with them—perhaps to the point of death—why is our concept so cozy, lacking the passion and suffering of our benevolent Triune God? To answer this question, we need to examine more closely three elements of Jesus’ compassion: seeing, feeling, and acting.
Learning to See
If we do not see the suffering, we will never feel or act compassionately. The most basic barrier that keeps us from seeing those who suffer is our own sin, which manifests itself in at least two ways. First, we have selective sight. We tend to notice situations and people who won’t disturb our plans, so we surround ourselves with the familiar, the comfortable, and convenient. Indeed, the American cataracts of ease and expedience may be the greatest compassion killer, which is why Satan likes to blur our vision.
One way to cut away these cataracts is for your church to partner with God’s people in more impoverished areas. Thankfully, a growing number of American churches are learning that short-term missions is not about swooping into a foreign culture, doing a project, and then leaving others to deal with the results (and sometimes the damage). Short-term missions, at its best, is a way of building relationships with Christians in our neighborhood, nation, and around the world so that we learn to see suffering, to glimpse how God’s people respond, and to learn how we can be involved. In this way, short-term missions is often more about seeing and learning than doing or accomplishing, although seeing often leads to action.
The second threat to our vision: busyness. We fill our lives with good things—work, church activities, family, friends, hobbies—but even these good things can serve our cult of comfort. Thankfully, God, in His wisdom, built a safeguard against busyness into His law: the Sabbath. God knows that His people need to stop—to wonder at and worship God because of His compassionate action in Christ—and to consider practical ways to respond. But busyness often overflows, the Sabbath becomes another day to accomplish something, and we remain near-sighted, confined by self-preoccupation.
When we rest our vision clears, and the Spirit begins to work in our hearts.
Learning to Feel
If we never see suffering, we never feel compassion. The heart has to be involved, because the way from the eyes to the hands is through the heart. Jesus saw suffering, felt compassion, and acted. Our first reaction, often, is to go numb.
Recently, my wife and I visited Mexico City’s Hornos community, a group of people who have been displaced from their squatter settlements by the government with the promise of a new home. It has been two years since then, and hundreds of families are still squeezed into their one-room cement box of a home. We entered the room/house of an elderly couple, the woman hunched over by years of poor nutrition, the man’s hands crippled by disease—and I could feel my heart deaden. But then we prayed, and I let myself feel; I allowed myself express the horror and helplessness and gave these emotions over to God. And from this position of prayerful feeling, paths of possible action began to emerge: contacting a lawyer, buying medicine, praying for and with them, visiting them again. But without first feeling, compassionate action is paralyzed.
In the face of suffering, we’re also prone to cynicism and pessimism. Cynics see the suffering, but create emotional distance by thinking, “It’s really their fault and they probably deserve it, so I should not feel compassion.” In some situations, this thought has a grain of truth, but to apply it across the board twists the truth and kills compassion. After all, did our God feel and act compassionately in Christ toward those who deserved it? Pessimists see the suffering, but create emotional distance by thinking, “There is really nothing I can do, and so I will not allow myself to be moved.” It may be true that there is little we can do on our own, but this does not take into consideration the company of compassion-actors we have in the community of Christ. We are called together, not just individually, to continue God’s mission of compassion to the suffering. Consequently, both cynicism and pessimism dissipate in the light of communion with the compassionate Christ and with the community born out of belief in the suffering Savior.
Learning to Act
Just as seeing does not ensure feeling, so feeling does not guarantee acting. We may not be cynics or pessimists, we may feel the full force of the others’ pain, but we can still fall into two traps: Thinking that we are acting compassionately when we are not. Or, simply, not knowing what to do. The most common way in which we think we are acting compassionately is when we give money but stay at a safe distance. Being generous is a wonderful way to serve, and has a plethora of biblical examples, but by itself it is not the kind of compassion that transforms suffering. Giving money can be a great sacrifice, even a form of suffering for some, but it is possible to give money without ever knowing the suffering, which takes the “com” out of “com-passion.”
So then what is the answer? Looking to Christ, we notice first that Jesus gave up His power and position to identify with us in our situation. Therefore, our fitting response includes a willingness to sacrifice status and superiority—to freely enter into the situations of others. Paul identifies this as an expression of compassion: “If you have … any tenderness or compassion … in humility consider others better than yourselves” (Philippians 2:1-3). When we enter into the situations of others, we see their needs, but sometimes their greatest need is someone who cares. For example, one can express compassion toward the elderly or sick by visiting them, bringing flowers, reading them a story, singing a song, or leading them in prayer. When it comes to compassionate action, simple presence is sometimes the strongest form of action.
Second, Jesus entered into relationships with the suffering of society. He placed priority in His ministry on people others avoided—thieves, tax collectors, women, lepers, and the poor. Consequently, our compassion is fitting when we intentionally enter into relationships with outcasts and the downcast. This requires entering into their world, and inviting them to enter ours. The best resource we have for this sort of compassion may be our homes. Our homes are not just places where we take refuge from the world; they’re places where we invite the suffering to take refuge, too. It is common to think of hospitality as entertaining friends, but we must expand our understanding to include strangers and the suffering (Hebrews 13:1-2). In doing so, our homes become the setting and means for the compassionate action of God in Christ. In addition, when we focus on relationships with the suffering in society, other opportunities emerge on a grander scale, whether addressing the social structures that contribute to their suffering or appointing and leading others in the community of Christ to act on their behalf.
Third, Jesus acted on behalf of the suffering of society, not just by teaching and healing, but by forgiving, which eventually led to death on the cross. Forgiveness is at the heart of compassionate action, because it responds to insult and injury with love. It often feels and looks like suffering, because we long for the opposite: revenge, retribution, and justice. It’s no wonder that Paul often links compassion with forgiveness. “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32). In Colossians, Paul commands his listeners to clothe themselves with the garments of Christ, including compassion. When we project the image of Christ, it is necessary to “forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you” (Colossians 3:13). At this point, the connection between seeing, feeling, and acting compassionately breaks down a bit, because sometimes we really don’t see or feel the need to forgive someone. At these times, it is crucial to focus on Jesus and to feel the full force of His love in order to be moved to act accordingly.
The Passion of Compassion
The passion of compassion is primarily a zeal for suffering people. It is a passion to keep our eyes open and to stay un-busy enough to see suffering people. It is a passion to feel the force of suffering without sliding into cynicism or pessimism. Most of all, it is a passion to enter into relationships with suffering people, to enter their world, to invite them to enter ours, and to suffer with them by suffering together. We can express this passionate compassion individually—to our families, friends, neighbors, and strangers. And we can express it on a larger scale as the community of Christ commits to fighting situations and sources of suffering around the world. In every way compassion is expressed, the Spirit of the suffering Savior guides our action, so that God may be glorified and the suffering may experience transformation, including the hope that one day, at Christ’s compassionate coming, suffering will disappear forever.
Wes Vander Lugt (M.Div, Covenant Seminary) has served as a youth pastor and most recently as a volunteer with Armonía Ministries in Mexico, a ministry committed to seeing, feeling, and acting compassionately among poor communities. Wes and his wife Stephanie look forward to further ministry in St. Andrews, Scotland, where Wes will be pursuing doctoral studies.
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Teal Jr.
Concord, NC
Learn to be involved in the lives of those who meet with you. Go to their homes, if allowed, be proactive in getting to know them. Share their lives! Know the family, the children, the likes and dislikes. You cannot minister to those whom you do not involve yourselves with. All else is superficial, and they know it.
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Step 1, Gospel Proclamation:
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More info is at http://www.cvtogether.org/mission.html
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Randy- Praise God that you have been able to introduce these men to Jesus Christ! It is always a joy when the suffering-with of compassionate living leads to a sharing-with of our suffering Savior.
Les- Thank you for pointing us to CVT. This seems to be a ministry committed to compassionate action. I would encourage us to think about how to be involved in these kinds of initiatives in our own neighborhoods, as well as supporting and linking to this work overseas. This often begins simply by building relationships, and by seeing, feeling, and acting in Spirit-led, compassionate ways.
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